Greeting Norms

There are several ways to say “hello” in Hebrew. The most familiar way to say hello is neither formal nor informal and known by just about everybody. And you can use the same word to say goodbye, too:

שלום

Shalom/Hello or Goodbye (literally means peace)

Oh, and super easy:

היי

Hi! Hi

This greeting is obviously very informal and more likely to be spoken amongst acquaintances.

 

Communication styles

Of course, it is hard to characterize everyone that speaks Hebrew the same way. But, generally, Hebrew-speakers are not very formal in social interactions, especially with friends and family.

Sometimes, they can be seen as blunt because they are direct and to the point. But, it really can be attributed to the way that Hebrew is written and spoken. In English we tend to use a lot of words. Hebrew is typically characterized by its brevity. In English, we might say “May I please have a cappuccino?” In Hebrew it would be, “efshar cappuccino”? (literally “it’s possible, cappuccino?”) As in any language, how you say something is as important as what you say. Also, they appreciate honesty and direct speech.

Personal space and touching

While talking to one another it is normal to stand close to each other. And physical interaction is seen as normal, especially amongst acquaintances. Religious persons, may keep a greater distance, as a sign of respect, and not touch those of the opposite sex.

Eye contact and gestures

Direct eye contact while speaking is a sign of respect and interest in the other person. Although it is possible that a religiously observant person may avoid contact with someone of another gender.